Fear Not!
By Michael A. Verdicchio
Modern psychology seems to suggest that living with fears is normal. Some
popular phrases today include, "accepting your fears," "managing your fears,"
"embracing your fears," or "coping with your fears." But is that really the way
that God intended us to live - with fear?
There are countless Christians today trying to accept their fears. They are
doing everything they can to manage their fears. They are unclear on exactly how
to embrace and cope with their fears.
There are many facets and aspects of fear; one of the biggest is being fearful
of what others think of you. People do things, say things, and even buy things
because of their fear of what others might think.
They join clubs or organizations because they are afraid that if they don't,
others might think badly of them. They say things and talk a certain way because
they are afraid they might not say the right thing in front of the right people.
They purchase items because of a fear of not measuring up to those around them.
The fear never ends.
As a Christian, you don't have to live with those kinds of fears.
Fear will always limit you and keep you from being the person you really want to
be. Fear is destructive and it ruins lives. Learning to live with your fears is
not the answer. Ignoring your fears is not the answer. Getting rid of your fears
is the answer and it is available.
If it is "normal" to live with fear, then why is that not clearly spelled out to
us in the Bible? In fact, just the opposite is true. Many times on the pages of
Scripture you will find the phrase, "Fear not." If it is normal to accept your
fears, why would the Bible instruct us to be abnormal by telling us to "fear
not?" That certainly does not make any sense, if it is indeed normal to live
with your fears.
Why does the Bible say, "I sought the Lord and He heard me and delivered me from
all my fears?" If it were God's intention for us to embrace our fears, why
doesn't it instead say, "I sought the Lord and He helped me to embrace and
accept all my fears?" If God's will for your life was that it is completely
normal to live with your fears, why would He promise to deliver you from all of
them?
God never intended for Christians to be defeated and full of fear. He desires
just the opposite: that we live a fulfilled life, an abundant life. He wishes
above all things that we prosper and be in health.
Quite the contrary to living with your fears, and accepting your fears, the
Bible says that fear has torment. Fear is your enemy. Someone once described
fear as "sand in the machinery of life." Fear doesn't help; it hinders. Fear
doesn't get us through an open door; it keeps us in the hallway. Fear never
helps you put your best foot forward; it just keeps both feet in cement.
So many Christians are living needlessly with fears - all sorts of fears. But
God can deliver you of any and every fear; even your deepest, darkest fears.
Jesus told a man, whose daughter had just died, "Fear not, only believe!" The
man refused to fear, and believed, and his daughter was raised back to life! Why
did Jesus tell him, "Fear not?" It was because fear will always keep you from
believing and accepting the promises of God. When you believe the promises of
God, you will see them come to pass in your life.
Think about it - if it's normal to have fears, and you have no fears, you would
be abnormal, right? Why would God want you to be abnormal?
He doesn't. He truly desires for you to be set free from all your fears.
Are you tired of living with fear? God can deliver you! Ask Him to help you and
deliver you from all your fears.